Reclamation


Our timing was perfect. My grandson and I arrived as a massive beam structure - called a girt - dangled from the long arm of a backhoe. A black rope, held taut by my daughter, guided the girt to its resting place on its new foundation.

Four weeks ago, these very same beams rose from unstable footings after a century of sturdy 'barndom'. The trees that the beams were milled from were possibly hundreds of years old, harvested from old-growth forest. Their value and integrity has weathered storms and time alike, and now they are securely fastened into a newly poured, expertly designed foundation. I find this astounding... 

This past week, I gave two interviews where I shared my own version of reclamation: At age 34, I stumbled into a dense thicket where I couldn't see the forest for the trees. I labored there for eighteen years before realizing I'd been hoodwinked - and I left to reclaim my life.

My friend and business mentor Kathleen told me that when she shared the title of Saturday’s symposium - Reclaiming Autonomy Through the Written Word - with consent-based internet sensation Tarzan Kay, she responded by saying "Oh cool. That's what I did." She too wrote to re-find herself. 🌟

Having gone down etymological rabbit holes while writing this short piece, I am compelled to mention that the noun 'reclamation' and verb 'reclaim' are not only spelled differently, but they also have slightly different origins. 💫 Early 14c verb, reclaimen, means to "call back a hawk to the glove" while the noun originally meant "a cry of "NO"

Before they were cut down, 🌲 did old growth pine trees cry out in protest? What part of me inwardly shouted "NO!" to my ex-teacher’s unethical influence? How has my writer's hand called back my hawk self? How about yours? 🦅 What IS your next step in the reclamation of your autonomy?

Gerette Buglion

Gerette Buglion wants to live in a world where cult leaders, narcissistic abusers, and unethical, manipulative marketing techniques are spotted, called out, and silenced, creating more opportunities for nourishing relationships to flourish. Her work as educator and consultant centers on liberation from coercive control and supporting the integrative power of writing for survivors of cultic relationships through Writing to Reckon™ programs. Her passion for understanding influence and human behavior is at the core of her favorite conversations. She is a Co-founder and Executive Director for the nonprofit Living Cult Free and author of An Everyday Cult, her memoir and Writing to Reckon Journal - for Survivors of Spiritual, Religious and Cultic Abuse. Gerette’s Writing to Reckon™programs have been helping writers find their voice since March, 2020.

https://gerettebuglion.com
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